I've been postponing the idea of launching a newsletter for quite some time now. I’m not a writer, but I've got a pile of who-knows-how-many notebooks, note-taking apps, sticky notes, and mental notes, all gathering dust because, as I mentioned, I’m not writer. And even after around 5 years of freelancing in graphic design and illustration, I still find it difficult to call myself an illustrator.
But you know what? Here it is—my first post, an open invitation for fellow imposters to connect.
Imposters’ Manifesto
1. Don’t show anything until it’s perfect
Flaws are our nemesis. Imperfections are what makes us vulnerable to harsh criticism and people might be able to see our true, flawed selves.
2. Strive to fit in
We believe in always guessing what other people expect from us. Conformity is our guiding principle, and our mission is to make sure we’re never rejected by anyone.
3. The Journey Sucks
We create solely for the end result, fixating on a constantly changing destination. We see the journey as an obstacle to be endured. Every step forward is a chance of being disapproved by others.
4. Reach For the Stars
We compare ourselves only to those we admire. We firmly believe in our own inferiority and their inherent superiority, disregarding their experience, contexts, or potential advantages. Peers within our own circumstances are irrelevant.
5. Fly Solo
We avoid collaboration because we've mastered the art of talking to ourselves. We shy away from opportunities to work with others, convinced that our contributions are insignificant anyway.
6. Reject Help
We firmly believe that others are deserving of encouragement and support, while we are unworthy of such things.
7. Avoid Failure at All Costs
We dread failure, viewing it as a direct reflection of our lack of talent, and as a significant threat to our own life.
8. Disregard Diversity
We recognise that creativity thrives in familiar environments, where everyone's ideas look and sound the same. We don't bother challenging elitism and exclusivity, we sustain a community that is selective and unsupportive.
9. Conform to Societal Standards of Success
We measure achievement based on the prestige of our clients, the number of renowned titles and awards, financial wealth, and social media fame.
10. Quit Before You Start
Because let's face it, with all the doubt, uncertainty, and adversity, why even bother? It's far more soothing to grab some snacks and binge-watch videos about creativity. After all, who needs the stress of actually creating when there are plenty of others out there doing it better than us?
If you found this relatable or have any thoughts and suggestions, I'd love to hear from you.
Best,
Silv
www.silviapaizan.com